Running Through Pregnancy: Part 1


I have high standards for myself physically.  I love working out, and eventually (post-baby and post-debt) I plan on getting certified to be a personal trainer.  However, during this pregnancy stage in my life, I’m finding myself all turned-around as far as my workout schedule.

It’s not set in stone.

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picture courtesy of thepregnancyzone.come

Mornings have been harder for me than normal.  I find myself more tired than I “should be”, not being the first to jump out of bed, and as a whole, finding a strange joy in a slower, less stressful morning.  Imagine this… I’m taking the time to get Adam’s lunchbox together, to make him a healthy breakfast that I can drop off on my way to work, I’m eating a healthy breakfast and prepping lunch, and I’m taking time to read the Word and do some additional study reading. Wow.  What a mood changer for the day. Sure, I love my morning runs, but starting off my morning with spiritual priorities in place and without having to literally run around the house in order to leave on-time is so much better for me and my family in the long run.

(I’m sure this schedule will continue to morph until I find the perfect balance between things, but this is how I’m managing my schedule so far during the 2nd trimester.)

As a result, my workouts happen in the mornings on the weekend and in the evenings during the week.  I’m very excited that the sun has returned and we’re getting to enjoy longer days.  I can come home from work at 5:30, go for a run, and still not be running in the pitch black.

Not being set in stone means taking rest days here and there … and not being frustrated with it.  It’s a huge change for me, but it’s one I’m learning to okay with.

It’s more tiring.

I felt so lame the first trimester.  Running took a whole lot more energy than I expected. After all, I’ve been running faithfully since October 2011. Suddenly, during the first trimester, it was like I had zero iron in my body, and every few steps was a fight. I’ve kept up my mileage (which was just maintaining at 4-4.5 miles) and have allowed myself to run on a more level plain.  My left knee has been tender for the last 4 months, so allowing myself a little ease on the joints for the sake of their longevity just might be my best option.

Realizing my progress.

I’m an over-achiever.  As exercise and health have become more solid passions over the last 4 years, I’m beginning to realize it’s hard to measure my own progress.  What I’m doing never seems quite good enough.  I think I lack confidence that I’m as good as so many others that I admire.  I have my calendar marked for all the days I have worked out during my pregnancy so far in order to help me keep perspective.  I’ve done really well actually.  I’m averaging 4 days a week on a slow week.  That’s ok, right??  I have to laugh because that seems like it’s not enough (I was working out 6 days a week before the baby) but I think know my perspective is skewed.

Maintaining sucks.

I’m competitive.  For those of you who knew me in high school, this is not news.  For those of you who knew me in college, you’ve only known me in competition as it regards to dorm events, and yes, I was competitive then.  However, as I get older, I’m less and less competitive against others and more and more competitive with myself.  I think that’s why running is such a great sport for me.  It’s always about beating my own time, doing better as an individual runner, and growing in my skills as a lifter.  I’m competing against myself.

As a result, I like to have something to train for.  Running the same courses multiple times a week can be ok for a while, but I like to have some reason to push myself hard.  As a result, today I printed out a modified Hal Higdon half-marathon training guide to keep me motivated.  I’m looking for a half that I can run (at an easy pace, of course) around July after 12-13 weeks of faithful training.  Of course, we’ll see how things go.  My health and the health of my baby are the most-important, so I might have to modify as we get further along.

Running is a solace.

I love the peace of a good run.  It’s long been a time of praying, praise, wrestling, and worship for me and the Lord, and when I’m rushed in the morning, that seems to happen less.  My long runs are a great time of praying through the miles, talking to the Lord about family issues, and allowing Him to use my running–the easy miles, the hard miles, the hills, and the pain–to teach me about Himself and about myself.

New running shoes, of course.

I currently have 366.5 miles on the Asic GT-2000‘s I bought in October.  I’m pretty much in love with this pair.  I’ve never had shoes that have been specifically running sneakers 100% of the time and ones that fit me so well.  My rule is I have to run at least 500 miles in a pair of shoes before they can “retire” to act as my everyday shoes.  Well, my everyday shoes are falling apart, and I love how my legs, knees, and feet feel in my GT’s, so I’m excited to be running more faithfully, so I can get the additional 133.5 miles needed on these in order to get a fresh pair (of the same shoe, I’m sure).

A few additional thoughts

I did a lot of research on running while pregnant before I was pregnant, and I’m still doing  a lot of reading, studying, and exploring of different opinions on the topic.  Please do not take my opinions and experience and follow it over your doctor’s.  I am not a trained doctor and am simply sharing from my personal understanding/experience.  Thank you.

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14 Weeks, 6 Days: Lemon


Well, laugh all you want, but this has been the week of forgetting I’m pregnant.  I’ve run (and felt great).  I’ve played with kids and been productive around the house.  I’ve slept well.  Stop.  I have so much to be thankful for.

Minor Details…. we are in the 2ndtrimester, and I’m super-excited that I am over 7/20 of the way there. That’s almost halfway!!!  The year is going fast!

How I Look

I don’t feel huge (I think I’m adjusting to my not-so-flat stomach), and my clothes are wearing differently.  I’m still in my normal clothes with a little creativity (hair tie) working for me for the jeans/dress pants. My mother-in-law bought me some awesome maternity shirts that I just can’t wait to wear.

Weight Gain

Lemon sideAs of my 12-week appointment, I’d only gained about a pound and a half.  On Sunday, I weighed myself on my in-law’s scale (since I threw mine out :) ) and I hadn’t gained a pound at all according to theirs.  If I show up next Monday for my appointment and haven’t gained anything else, I’m sure I’ll be in trouble, but it’s not for my lack of eating. lol Ask any of the girls I work with and poor Adam who I text at lunch almost every day telling him that I’m starving (still).

Food Cravings/Aversions

So far, I can’t really say I’ve had the aversions (except sugar).  I can’t really say I’ve had cravings (like I had anticipated cravings anyway).  I more get hungry at random times of the day/night.  I’ll be sitting in bed at 10:30pm, and suddenly decide that a piece of pepperoni pizza sounds amazing.  Then I roll over and go to bed. No desire has been to die for.  Thankfully, I’m back to not craving only carbs, or atleast the carbs that I am desiring include all manner of veggies and fruits (good riddance, first trimester and your craving all manner of empty carbs).

Baby Size

We are now the size of a lemon (for one more day, that is), and I am waiting to see how hungry I am today.  I swear this little bugger does all his/her growing on the last day of the week, because I’m normally ravenous that day!

Boy/Girl

I have no idea.  I will be happy with either. :) Some friends got us our first sleeper last Sunday.  It’s a blue sleeper with fire trucks all over it.  While it’s definitely “meant” for a boy, my little girl will be growing up around the fire department, so either way, boy or girl, it will be appropriate.  Super-excited to have a baby to put it on!

Dr Appointments

My next doctor appointment is Monday, April 15.  I’ll be almost 16 weeks at that time, and while I won’t be able to have an ultrasound to see my little baby, I look forward to hearing the heartbeat again. :)

Additional Notes

I found the stroller I want!!! (SideNote: I love Craigslist.)  This really has been the one thing I’m willing to invest in for this baby.  We plan on using an old crib (Adam’s when he was a child) and using a dresser with a bad for a changing table, and I bought maternity clothes secondhand as well.  However, my stroller is the one thing that I’ve wanted to be the best of the best.

The stroller is the BOB Ironman.  It’s meant for long runs and hardcore running, and it retails for $409.00.  Call me crazy, but I plan on running quite a bit with my baby in tow.  I found the stroller I want on Craigslist for $180.  Such a blessing!!

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Guest Post: Dangerous Items to Look Out for in Makeup – Featuring Bridget Sandorford


Dangerous Items to Look Out for in Makeup

Many of us can recite the qualities of our makeup that make it so great for our look. “Voluminizing” mascara and “pore refining” foundation. Yet few of us take the time to consider what’s in that mascara that is supposed to contribute to greater volume in your lashes or what’s in that foundation that’s supposed to reduce the look of pores on your skin.

The answer is usually not something good. There are dozens of harmful — some would even say toxic — chemicals in makeup and other beauty products that can contribute to an array of health problems (even disease) over time. Here are a few of the most common dangerous items you should be looking out for in makeup:

Phthalates and Parabens

picture courtesy of totalbeauty.com

picture courtesy of totalbeauty.com

These are some of the most common chemicals found in makeup, and they are used as preservatives and to keep bacteria out. They are most often found in nail polish, moisturizers, shampoo and perfume. Phthalates and parabens have been linked to breast cancer and reproductive problems. They were banned by the European Union in 2003, but they remain legal in the U.S.

Formaldehyde

Formaldehyde is a known carcinogen, and has also been linked to developmental and reproductive issues.  You won’t likely find “formaldehyde” on the label of your makeup or personal care products. Look instead for ingredients like diazolidinyl urea, imidazolidinyl urea, quarternium-15 and methenamine — some of which break down into formaldehyde in your body. You are most likely to find these ingredients in hair products such as dyes and straighteners, moisturizers, and nail polish.

FD&C Color Pigments

These color pigments are made from coal tar, which is carcinogenic and has been linked to a number of cancers. The FD&C Red #4 pigment has been banned for use in foods because of the problems it has caused in the adrenal glands and bladder. The pigments have also been shown to irritate the skin and decrease oxygen in the blood.

BHA (Butylated Hydroxyanisole) and BHT (Butylated Hydroxytoluene)

Used to prolong the shelf life of cosmetics, BHA and BHT have been linked to a number of problems, including endocrine disruption, liver and kidney problems, and cancer. BHA and BHT have both been listed as chemicals of concern to fish and aquatic wildlife, yet they continue to be used as food preservatives and in cosmetics such as lip stick.

Propylene Glycol

Propylene glycol is found in antifreeze — and in your mascara. Propylene glycol is used to prevent melting and freezing and to extend the shelf life of products. It has been linked to cancer, developmental problems, and reproductive issues. It is also found in nail polish, toothpaste and many other personal care items.

There are many other harmful items found in common cosmetics. It’s worth taking the time to research those long, obscure ingredients listed on the back of your mascara, your foundation, and all your other cosmetics. Learning the ingredients to look out for can help you start to make better choices that will protect your whole health. You can also choose all-natural products or even make your own!

How do you avoid buying makeup that has potentially toxic ingredients such as these? Share your tips in the comments!

About the Author:

Bridget Sandorford is a freelance food and culinary writer, where recently she’s been researching the Pennsylvania culinary institute. In her spare time, she enjoys biking, painting and working on her first cookbook.

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Want to guest post?  - email me at agb_aeb@hotmail.com

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11 Weeks, 2 Days: My Little Lime — Looking Back


How I feel

I feel great! I am so thankful because my morning sickness has been so minimal.  I really only ever feel nauseated when I’m hungry.  I’m not falling asleep at my desk at work (almost happened –I will admit) and I am not achy/tired all over like I was for a few long weeks.

My energy has returned in the morning, but I am starting off my day a little differently than before.  I’m not running around as stressed before, as I’m spending time reading and studying and praying.  I’m working out in the evening and listening to my body when it needs a rest day.

How I look

Most people would probably still not know that I’m pregnant (actually, most people don’t lol).  The size of my bump changes daily (completely normal) with how much food I have in my stomach, how much rest I’ve had, and how bloated I feel.

Family/Friends

We are telling our closest friends this week/weekend. :) I have a few more people to tell before, and we’re letting our church know on Sunday.  We’ll wait a week or so more before making it known worldwide.  Then, these will be posted on my blog, so people can catch up with where we are and follow the statistics of our little bean raspberry lime.

On a funny note, Aaron told me that Kendra (his girlfriend) told him he should not only be excited that Adam and I are expecting but that he should tell me.  Yesterday, he told me he was “excited for his or her third birthday!!!!”  Thanks, Aaron. :) I hope you enjoy this kid while he/she is still a baby too!

Food Cravings/Aversions

I’m trying to eat well (and healthy) and thankfully, my appetite is normal (no crazy cravings…. yet). I’m no longer dying for carbs and am back to desiring salads and healthy foods again (what a relief!).

Sweets are still a definite aversion, and even pickles have lost their charm.  Creamy things sound amazing, and

Baby Size

Last week, my baby was the size of a prune.  Really???  We can come up with anything limemore creative??  Thankfully, this week he/she is the size of a lime.  That’s so cool.  I handle those semi-regularly.  They’re a decent size, and wow, I have a lime-size baby inside me!

Doctor Appointments

My next doctor appointment is next Friday, a week from today.  Aaaah! I’m so excited to see my baby again!  Adam will be coming with me this time, and I’m so excited for it to become visual for him.  Sure, he knows and he’s excited, but it’s so surreal until you’ve actually seen the baby moving around. :) I can’t wait!

Boy/Girl

Before I saw the baby in week 8, I was calling my child a girl.  It was weird.  I just kept saying “she”.  Since then, however, all that comes out is “he”.  I was praying as I ran the other day and realized that I was praying for my son to grow to be a Godly man of character.  Then, I had to laugh and say, “make that a Godly woman if she’s a girl, Lord.”  I took some “home tests” by answering some symptom-related questions, and literally, after 12 tests, my “odds” of having a boy versus a girl were exactly even. We’ll see!  8 ½ more weeks or so!  Goodness, that sounds like forever away!

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8 Weeks, 2 Days: My Raspberry – Looking Back


Pregnancy Marker: 8 weeks, 2 days

Baby Size: The baby is the size of a large raspberry this week.

Symptoms: Wow, exhausted.  I thought 5 weeks was hard to get out of bed.  Getting out OLYMPUS DIGITAL CAMERAof bed has not been a huge issue this week as much as staying out of bed. Lol I can get up fine, but seriously, by 10:30am, I’m ready for a nap. I’m also really cold!  I know it’s the increased speed of blood circulating through me and the baby, but it’s not fun to feel chilled internally all the time. My face had been doing so well, but I’ve broken out some.  Tea tree oil, here I come. I’ve woken up every night this week around 2:30am with some not-so-fun nausea and cramping.  Waking up nauseous is not pleasant.  However, as long as I’m not hungry during the day, I’m not nauseated.

Cravings: I am not really a fan of anything sweet.  Even tea too sweet kind of grosses me out.  Carbs are still my favorite, but I’m focusing more on eating healthy carbs and less of the kind that I’m really desiring (junk).  I’m thirsty like I’ve been in a dessert.

Mint gum helps with borderline nausea, which is funny since I was expecting that to be repulsive.  Thanks, Karalie, for that tip!

Body Changes: I can say that no one would be able to notice the little pouch I’m beginning to feel except me (or Adam).  We’ve both noticed a little less definition in my abs (although I was happy to see them again after a good run yesterday), and I can totally feel the bloating emphasizing my little growing raspberry.

Additional Comments: Our families all know now. :) They’re all very excited for us!

Doctor’s Appointments: I get to have my first pre-natal appointment in 2 days, on Friday, February 22!  I can’t wait!

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